Never Have I Ever … Been Hungrier For Increasingly Better Representation • The Muslim Women TImes


I used to be tremendous excited when Mindy Kailing’s present Never Have I Ever (NHIE) premiered a few months in the past on Netflix. The present stars Maitreyi Ramakrishnan as Devi, an Indian American highschool sophomore coping with the grief of dropping her father whereas additionally juggling mates and her love pursuits. Devi is assured and good and Ramakrishnan performs her so effortlessly. It is just refreshing to see a South Asian (or desi) individual on-screen exude a lot cool (a much-needed change from so many desi characters on American screens which can be simply variations of Apu from Simpsons!). The trailer for the NHIE collection has a light-weight and enjoyable comedy vibe (assume Netflix’s To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before) with the unbelievable bonus (for me) of getting a darkish pores and skin desi lead!!! And this bonus …is not any small bonus!

Left to Right: Maitreyi Ramakrishnan, Richa Moorjani, and Poorna Jagannathan

I lastly discovered the time to observe it however for the primary couple of episodes, I had a robust urge to only flip it off! I continued on as a result of typically talking, a brown and/or Muslim present has to do one thing actually egregious for me to desert it. Within the primary two episodes, I noticed this present too didn’t actually symbolize my experiences. After all, I’m Muslim, the present’s characters are Hindu. I’m from Pakistan, the present’s characters are from India, and many others.

But then … I additionally made peace with the truth that it shouldn’t need to symbolize.

The present has a desi household at its centre and that illustration issues to me. It was type of like how I typically get pleasure from watching Rami, a present on Hulu about an Arab American who leads a life vastly completely different from mine, however I like seeing all of the Muslim characters float out and in of scenes, simply merely main their very regular lives. I really feel completely happy to see any brown and/or Muslim illustration as a result of it’s nearer to the United States I function in. Once I noticed Never Have I Ever for what it was… a light-hearted coming of age drama — with a desi lead!!! — I started to benefit from the present much more. Yay!

But because the episodes progressed, I noticed that the problem wasn’t my very unreasonable expectation of the present representing my precise experiences. It was that the present had various stereotypes that I needed to drive myself to get previous. I discovered myself pondering: so what if the desi mom is unreasonably tremendous strict, or that the mother and the cousin have a surprisingly pretend accent, or that desis are proven to be obsessive about being mannequin minorities, desirous to get into Ivy Leagues, or the desi mother is anti-therapy, or …..or….all the opposite stuff that saved popping up. Lots of different white ‘light-hearted’ comedies have had a lot worse points (I just lately re-watched components of Never Been Kissed and I noticed that the 27/30? yr previous instructor was, on the very least, a creep for liking who he thought was a 17 yr previous highschool pupil! Yuck!!).

Why was I hell-bent on concentrating on all of the errors that Never Have I Ever made (just like the unusual normalizing Modi reference in Ep 4, at a time when Modi is accountable for the deaths of so many Indian Muslims!, or on how the primary character doesn’t show any perception into incapacity through her paralysis expertise). I must be (and I’m) completely happy to see a darkish pores and skin younger vibrant desi woman on display.

But there’s a distinction in talking to at least one’s experiences and enjoying into tropes to humour white audiences. Over time, I’ve turn out to be so hyper-aware of the problem of illustration that I can’t assist however be sure that reveals which have brown and/or Muslim characters additionally keep away from being complicit in harming our communities through our nation’s racist/xenophobic imaginations. These reveals are precious in that they symbolize some side of ourselves however in addition they should work to defy stereotypes that feed into xenophobia in the direction of our communities AND they have to resist colonist narratives imposed on us.

Our communities can’t escape how we’re sometimes portrayed on TV, the place even after we are portrayed in a superb mild, it turns into clear that the author’s room was maybe not probably the most …umm….various. So after we do see a present produced by certainly one of us, we can’t assist however anticipate some extent of resistance to the preexisting dominant narratives about us.

But don’t get me mistaken. We desperately want extra reveals like Never Have I Ever. We want Devi on for a second season! We want individuals who appear like Devi, lovely in their very own pores and skin. And we have to acknowledge that not each present by certainly one of us can get every part proper (and Never Have I Ever does get some issues proper). But alongside such reveals — reveals made by and starring brown and/or Muslim of us — we additionally want area for critiques of such reveals by of us inside marginalized communities in order that we will make manner for a extra various, complicated, and nuanced illustration of the diaspora down the road.

Saba Fatima - The Muslim Women Times

Saba Fatima is a PhD holder and the host of the podcast ‘She Speaks’: Academic Muslimahs


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